It’s like one has been thrown into the deep end of a pool and sunk to the bottom. Things that used to be easy are now made difficult. It’s hard to move, hear, and see in the deep waters. It is disorienting to put it mildly. The searing pain of the betrayal and all the grief over catastrophic losses make clear thinking rather difficult. The world is not safe anymore. Your most trusted relationship has been violated with your partner contemptuously rejecting the most sacred vow made to another human.
Commonsense is desperately needed.
The following song is about what love is not. Please forgive the Country twang. I like how Josh Turner points out the obvious about what actions say in regards to love–i.e. this is not love.
I think it is a good reminder.
Much needed in surviving the deep end of infidelity discovery.