“I don’t want to pick sides here!” says a Christian “friend”

“I don’t want to pick sides in this,” says a Christian “friend.” A person saying this is communicating to the adultery victim that they think something could justify their victimization. Let’s be clear: They ARE picking a side. It is the side of the adulterous spouse. This helps evil flourish. This is not a godly … Continue reading ““I don’t want to pick sides here!” says a Christian “friend””

No real accountability with Ravi Zacharias “investigation”

“I asked Barron at the beginning of our call whether her firm would be publishing the results of its investigation or giving the report to RZIM. Barron replied that the report would go to RZIM….” -Julie Roys in “Investigation Into Ravi Zacharias’ Alleged Misconduct Excludes Sexting Scandal” This is a show investigation in my opinion. … Continue reading “No real accountability with Ravi Zacharias “investigation””

Burning bridges is sometimes wisdom in action!

I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. – I Corinthians 5:11, NLT Some bridges need burning! I am thinking of … Continue reading “Burning bridges is sometimes wisdom in action!”

Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality

-I Corinthians 6:18, NIV A popular Country song is about using another person for sex in a one night stand. The song is “One Night Standards” by Ashley McBryde: I find this song extremely saddening. What an incredibly sad and devaluing take on human sexuality! It is debasing everyone both mentioned in the song and … Continue reading “Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality”

PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!

But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. -Proverbs 6:32-33, NIV The real shame is not faithful spouses divorcing cheaters, pastors. The real shame is Christians committing adultery! Preaching or counseling against divorce is a little late when it comes … Continue reading “PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!”

A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.

Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices…. -Colossians 3:9, NIV A lie to a child is still a lie. As Christians, we are to be people who speak truth, not lies.  This applies to children of divorce following infidelity. A lie is a lie. Now, truth can … Continue reading “A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.”

Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?

“Why did she HAVE TO leave?” – Cheater Apologist This is a loaded question.  If you even attempt to answer the question, you will lose. No good way to answer this question exist. It is like the classic loaded question: “When will you stop beating your wife?” Like this question assuming that you are beating … Continue reading “Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?”

Something worth giving thanks for!

Give thanks to him every time you reflect on his holiness! … We may weep through the night, but at daybreak it will turn into shouts of ecstatic joy. -Psalm 30:4b,5b, TPT Happy Thanksgiving to my readers in the United States! This is a strange one in 2020 like all things 2020. However, I know … Continue reading “Something worth giving thanks for!”

Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus

“I was recently contacted by someone who informed me that VERY BAD things have gone on over at Citizens Church Plano (formerly The Village Church-Plano Campus) which involved the campus pastor, Hunter Hall, and the worship pastor, Isaac Wimberley. It all goes back to 2016, when Hunter committed adultery with a woman in the church…but the … Continue reading “Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus”