What was the most confusing part of the experience?
So much is confusing and difficult when discovering a spouse has been unfaithful. So called “Christian” advice to forgive and forget in an effort to “save” the marriage is a big piece that adds to the confusion of the day.
Another candidate for most confusing is the reinforcement of “The Shared Responsibility Lie” as if taking partial–or even full blame–for the adulterous destruction of the marriage will actually help anyone.
Besides all that comes the confusion over who is really a friend or an enemy to the faithful spouse’s well-being. That category includes sussing out whether or not the in-laws are godly or simply going to side with blood no matter what.
For me, I found it difficult to grasp and believe what happened actually happened and that I was not to blame for it. That was what was most confusing for me.
So what was it for you?
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