The Doormat Is NOT the High Ground

I wrote to you in my letter not to associate with sexually immoral people— not at all meaning the people of this world who are immoral, or the greedy and swindlers, or idolaters. In that case you would have to leave this world. But now I am writing to you that you must not associate … Continuar leyendo «The Doormat Is NOT the High Ground»

You Are Precious To God

But now, God’s Message,     the God who made you in the first place, Jacob,     the One who got you started, Israel: “Don’t be afraid, I’ve redeemed you.     I’ve called your name. You’re mine. When you’re in over your head, I’ll be there with you.     When you’re in rough waters, you will not go down. When … Continuar leyendo «You Are Precious To God»

What God Separates

«What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.” -Mark 10:9, ESV. “If a man commits adultery with the wife of his neighbor, both the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death.» – Leviticus 20:10, ESV. «For truly, I say to you, until heaven and earth pass away, not an iota, not a … Continuar leyendo «What God Separates»

PSA: Concerning Marriage Therapists

PUBLIC SERVICE ANNOUNCEMENT (PSA): While I recommend finding a good therapist while going through the trauma of adultery (and/or divorce), not every marriage therapist is equal. I can tell you that just because it says LMFT after the therapist’s name (License Marriage and Family Therapist) does not mean they are trustworthy. Even after admittedly cheating … Continuar leyendo «PSA: Concerning Marriage Therapists»

RE: Gospel Witness And Divorce

A reader of the blog wrote a response to my post entitled: «Gospel Witness and Divorce.» It is worth a more detailed examination as it highlights common approaches to and confusion surrounding divorce after adultery in the evangelical subculture. I am grateful, Pete, wrote such a thoughtful and respectful response to my post. Here’s what … Continuar leyendo «RE: Gospel Witness And Divorce»