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I was busy at a pastors’ conference today. Hopefully, I will have time tomorrow to return to my regular postings.

I’m going to busy today at the Conference. So, the blog will be paused!  

I’m heading to a pastors conference in California today. So, I may be spotty in my posts in the coming week.  

The last few days the website with experiencing some difficulties. I apologize for that. One of my “plugins” was misbehaving. Thanks to some expert help, we are back up and running! The links should now populate and work.

Lying lips are abomination to the LORD: but they that deal truly are his delight. -Proverbs 12:22, KJV Liars lie. And cheaters by the fact that they cheated are liars. A wise person does not just take them at their word. Words need to be verified by action. I do not recommend trusting a cheater … Continue reading “Pro-Tip: Do NOT accept allowing the cheater to end it without you.”

I remember attending a popular Christian divorce ministry. This ministry puts a great deal of effort in “preventing” divorces and emphasizes how costly they are. Another aspect of this ministry was how they emphasized owning “your part” of the divorce. I believe this emphasis is a subtle blame shift. The subtle part is the assumption … Continue reading “All the emphasis on “owning your part””

The LORD blessed the latter part of Job’s life more than the former part. -Job 42:12a, NIV When you go through a divorce from a cheater, you start to see life differently. You cannot go through that experience and remain unmarked. That said, today’s post is about a positive out of that horrible experience. Personally, I … Continue reading “On savoring God’s gifts”

I work in hospice and have the opportunity to watch the poignant beauty of marriages that have lasted well past fifty years.* I say, “poignant” because I feel both awed by the sheer beauty of a couple still caring for each other after many decades together as well as sad by my own loss. Recently, … Continue reading “Dismembered feeling following divorce”