Then his wife said to him, “Do you still hold fast to your integrity? Curse God and die!” But he said to her, “You speak as one of the foolish women speaks. Shall we indeed accept good from God, and shall we not accept adversity?” – Job 2:9-10a, NKJV His wealth was all stolen. His … Continue reading “Job Did NOT Cheat.”
Category: Trauma of adultery
What’s their REAL theology?
And he continued, “You have a fine way of setting aside the commands of God in order to observe your own traditions! For Moses said, ‘Honor your father and mother,’ and, ‘Anyone who curses their father or mother is to be put to death.’ But you say that if anyone declares that what might have been used to help … Continue reading “What’s their REAL theology?”
Guest Post On “The Wartburg Watch” Blog
Guest Post on TWW I was approached by Dee, an editor of The Wartburg Watch, to write a little about my story, my ministry, and my take on John Piper’s position re: adultery/divorce/remarriage. Here is a link to what I wrote (click here). For those coming from TWW or unfamiliar with my earlier posts, here … Continue reading “Guest Post On “The Wartburg Watch” Blog”
When you know enough…
And this is the condemnation, that light is come into the world, and men loved darkness rather than light, because their deeds were evil. – John 3:19, KJV In the early stages of discovery, I can remember being downright obsessive in trying to find out the facts. It was all-consuming for a good deal of … Continue reading “When you know enough…”
When Kids Are Involved…
Take heed to yourselves, that your heart be not deceived, and ye turn aside, and serve other gods, and worship them; And then the Lord‘s wrath be kindled against you…. And ye shall teach them your children, speaking of them when thou sittest in thine house, and when thou walkest by the way, when thou liest down, … Continue reading “When Kids Are Involved…”
Unmoored Meanings
Woe unto them that call evil good, and good evil; that put darkness for light, and light for darkness; that put bitter for sweet, and sweet for bitter! – Isaiah 5:20, KJV Private Definitions of Cheaters I can remember my undergraduate philosophy professor telling us on multiple occasions how to deal with difficult argument situations. … Continue reading “Unmoored Meanings”
No Such Thing As “A Break” in Marriage
“I just needed a break.” I wonder how many who come here experienced their cheater instituting “a break” from their marriage. My (now) ex-wife took her own “break.” She went on a trip to Europe alone and removed her wedding ring on this trip. I have the pictures to prove it. When I pointed this out … Continue reading “No Such Thing As “A Break” in Marriage”
When Dating Again…
When I felt ready to date again following my divorce, I remember it being an exciting and terrifying time. Exciting: It was exciting to start thinking about a new beginning with someone who would love me for me. I went the route of online dating and was enjoying the interest I was gardnering from the opposite … Continue reading “When Dating Again…”
Pastors, All sins are not equal.
And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. – Leviticus 20:10, KJV Not all sins in a marriage are acceptable to God as worthy of ending a marriage (e.g. Mt 5:32). Not all … Continue reading “Pastors, All sins are not equal.”
Animals Have More Character
“Four things on earth are small, yet they are extremely wise: Ants are creatures of little strength, yet they store up their food in the summer; hyraxes are creatures of little power, yet they make their home in the crags; locusts have no king, yet they advance together in ranks; a lizard can be caught … Continue reading “Animals Have More Character”