You see, at just the right time, when we were still powerless, Christ died for the ungodly. -Romans 5:6, NIV “At just the right time” I think we are conditioned as a species to think the “right time” is when we are able to “save ourselves.” We think that is when a partnership with God is appropriate. … Continue reading “God knows “just the right time””
Category: Encouragement
Powerful quote to share
This past week I was blessed to spend time up at a cabin in Northern Minnesota. It was a wonderful time of memory making and relaxation with family. When I was driving back home yesterday, I was listening to an audio book. In particular, I am going through When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your … Continue reading “Powerful quote to share”
A spiritual secret for contentment
I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. -Philippians 4:12b, NIV When I am tempted to spiral into resentment (or start going there), I am reminded of an important spiritual secret: Gratitude is a great antidote to resentment. … Continue reading “A spiritual secret for contentment”
See God’s beauty!
The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship. -Psalm 19:1, NLT When reeling from infidelity discovery, it is easy to loose sight of the truth expressed here in Psalm 19. The world turns grey in the midst of our depression. Yet the heavens do not stop shouting out God’s glory even if … Continue reading “See God’s beauty!”
Divorce Minister Blog turns 7 years old today!
Today is the blog’s “birthday.” I launched this online ministry seven years ago today with the hope to address a gap in resources for faithful spouses. What I experienced when I went through my own divorce from a cheater was the absence of solid pastoral resources that took adultery seriously. So, I launched “Divorce Minister: … Continue reading “Divorce Minister Blog turns 7 years old today!”
Life is precious, and it DOES get better!
I will praise thee; for I am fearfully and wonderfully made: marvellous are thy works; and that my soul knoweth right well. -Psalm 139:14, KJV Life is precious. What we do with ours matters. Recently, this truth has been driven home to me both in my private and in my professional life as I encounter people … Continue reading “Life is precious, and it DOES get better!”
Worry not!
29 Are not two sparrows sold for a farthing? and one of them shall not fall on the ground without your Father. 30 But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. 31 Fear ye not therefore, ye are of more value than many sparrows. -Matthew 10:29-31, KJV God treasures us. This is what we ought to … Continue reading “Worry not!”
You get to CHOOSE your victory narrative!
Instead of shame and dishonor, you will enjoy a double share of honor. -Isaiah 61:7a, NLT Why would you choose to accept the lie-filled narrative from your cheater as your own narrative? Choose your own victory narrative! Remember: You are not the rejected spouse. RATHER, you are the FAITHFUL SPOUSE! You are not the morally … Continue reading “You get to CHOOSE your victory narrative!”
Words form the Psalms to Encourage
God is our refuge and strength, a very present help in trouble. Therefore will not we fear, though the earth be removed, and though the mountains be carried into the midst of the sea; Though the waters thereof roar and be troubled, though the mountains shake with the swelling thereof. Selah. … Be still, and … Continue reading “Words form the Psalms to Encourage”
Happy Father’s Day, Faithful Spouse Dads!
To all the faithful spouses who are dads: Have a wonderful Father’s Day! I hope you do something today to celebrate you. This is your day. Enjoy it! Being a father is one of my favorite roles. Munchkin fills my heart with joy and laughter. I am so glad that I get to be her dad … Continue reading “Happy Father’s Day, Faithful Spouse Dads!”