Planting tears….reaping joy!

They that sow in tears shall reap in joy. He that goeth forth and weepeth, bearing precious seed, shall doubtless come again with rejoicing, bringing his sheaves with him. -Psalm 126:5-6, KJV I recall listening to a sermon by Pastor Bill Johnson about this word picture from Scripture. He explained the idea as one going … Continue reading “Planting tears….reaping joy!”

Pastor Associated By Faithful Spouses

Preach the word; be prepared in season and out of season; correct, rebuke and encourage—with great patience and careful instruction. -2 Timothy 4:2, NIV To be helped, we need to be open to receiving. Maybe the Christian community turned on you when you decided to divorce your cheater or your cheater decided to divorce you? Maybe your cheater … Continue reading “Pastor Associated By Faithful Spouses”

Sometimes we God to remind us how He sees us…a song…

The Lord thy God in the midst of thee is mighty; he will save, he will rejoice over thee with joy; he will rest in his love, he will joy over thee with singing. -Zephaniah 3:17, KJV Sometimes we need to be reminded God has already passed the verdict: He picked YOU and loves YOU! Here’s a … Continue reading “Sometimes we God to remind us how He sees us…a song…”

Happy Thanksgiving, DM Readers!

Happy Thanksgiving Day to my readers in the USA! Surviving infidelity is tough stuff. We endure many losses. It is a hard and difficult season. However, this is a day when we celebrate what we DO have! We exercise the spiritual discipline of gratitude. It is a “discipline” as we have to work at it … Continue reading “Happy Thanksgiving, DM Readers!”

Why “Pastor David” and not just “David?”

So often, the traumas from discovering an unfaithful spouse are exasperated by a clueless or manipulative pastor. I entitled this website “Divorce Minister” as I hope my words will stand in healing contrast to those ministers who have wounded with their words. My hope is by exercising my office as a pastor others will find … Continue reading “Why “Pastor David” and not just “David?””

CHEATED ON now available in paperback!

My latest book is now available in paperback! Amazon just approved my proofs and has listed my book in paperback form on their websites. The print version is 112 pages long with a beautiful color cover. Buy a copy or two! Share it with your pastor or Christian therapist. Then remember to leave a review. … Continue reading “CHEATED ON now available in paperback!”

Divorce Minister’s eBook available TODAY!

Cheated On: The Divorce Minister Guide to Surviving Infidelity and Keeping Your Faith …is now available in eBook format on Amazon! I encourage all my readers to go online and pick up a copy. This book contains the seminal ideas of this blog in a longer format. My hope is the book would be a … Continue reading “Divorce Minister’s eBook available TODAY!”

Fickle equals fully fake repentance

***My eBook is releasing in less than a week!!! Monday, November 12th. Get your copy now while it is still on the low price of only $4.99.***   “Get busy living or get busy dying.” – Andy Dufresne in Shawshank Redemption   “Today I have given you the choice between life and death, between blessings and curses. … Continue reading “Fickle equals fully fake repentance”