You have your integrity still.

When Peter saw him [John], he asked, “Lord, what about him?” Jesus answered, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.” – John 21:21-22, NIV It is understandable. You have been soul raped and your world has been turned upside down by your partner’s selfish, … Continue reading “You have your integrity still.”

Re-titling DM Book…

As I get edits back on my book manuscript, I have decided to change its title. When I started Divorce Minister, I created this blog ministry specifically to be a space where people could come to receive pastoral care from a pastor who could relate to the pain of infidelity discovery, abandonment, and divorce. I knew … Continue reading “Re-titling DM Book…”

Working on Divorce Minister Book with Title Change

  Yesterday, I was busy at work on the book. This is an important week for manuscript edits and the like. The book–as of now–is going to be called: Taking Adultery Seriously: Divorce Minister help for surviving infidelity and keeping your faith I am very excited about completing this process. This will be my first … Continue reading “Working on Divorce Minister Book with Title Change”

Too Much at Stake to Sail Off!

So until I come, be diligent in devouring the Word of God, be faithful in prayer, and in teaching the believers. -I Timothy 4:13, TPT Too much is at stake to just sail off into my blessed sunset! I wish more faithful spouse pastors had not simply sailed off into their sunset prior to my … Continue reading “Too Much at Stake to Sail Off!”

My anxiety load is heavy enough!

  Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. -Galatians 6:2, NIV When dealing with infidelity discovery and divorce, no shortage of worries exist for the faithful spouse. The anxiety load is heavy! A word of advice for those wanting to truly help faithful spouses: Become aware of your … Continue reading “My anxiety load is heavy enough!”

God sends His “ravens”

Then the word of the Lord came to Elijah: “…You will drink from the brook, and I have directed the ravens to supply you with food there.” …The ravens brought him bread and meat in the morning and bread and meat in the evening, and he drank from the brook. -I Kings 17:2, 4, 6, NIV God sends His “ravens!” It … Continue reading “God sends His “ravens””

Personal integrity intact…or not

When Peter saw him [John], he asked, “Lord, what about him?” Jesus answered, “If I want him to remain alive until I return, what is that to you? You must follow me.” – John 21:21-22, NIV It is understandable. You have been soul raped and your world has been turned upside down by your partner’s selfish, … Continue reading “Personal integrity intact…or not”