Forgiveness begins with acknowledgment of wrong

“If we confess our sins, he is faithful and just to forgive us our sins, and to cleanse us from all unrighteousness.” -I John 1:9, KJV What good is forgiveness to someone who does not think he or she did anything wrong? It is worthless.  They are not in bondage to a conscience warning them … Continue reading “Forgiveness begins with acknowledgment of wrong”

Shameless sinners

But the Lord is still there in the city,    and he does no wrong.Day by day he hands down justice,    and he does not fail.    But the wicked know no shame. -Zephaniah 3:5, NLT Shameful behavior deserves to be treated as shameful behavior. I believe in unconditional love. However, I do believe we must reject a life of shameful … Continue reading “Shameless sinners”

Please, don’t bother!

If your cheater refuses to stop cheating AND demonstrate to YOUR satisfaction that the affairs are done for good… …then please do NOT bother trying to reconcile! This is not a workable situation.  You do not deserve to remain in an abusive situation as that is what a marriage to an active cheater is.  Both … Continue reading “Please, don’t bother!”

Confident lies are disorienting.

“‘Now go and attack Amalek, and utterly destroy all that they have, and do not spare them. But kill both man and woman, infant and nursing child, ox and sheep, camel and donkey.’” …. Then Samuel went to Saul, and Saul said to him, “Blessed are you of the Lord! I have performed the commandment … Continue reading “Confident lies are disorienting.”

Is God good? Really is a question of trustworthiness.

The LORD replied, “I will make all my goodness pass before you, and I will call out my name, Yahweh, before you. For I will show mercy to anyone I choose, and I will show compassion to anyone I choose.” -Exodus 33:19, NLT Have you ever struggled with the question of whether God is good? … Continue reading “Is God good? Really is a question of trustworthiness.”

Update re:Bill Hybels scandal and Willow Creek Church

This post is merely to inform my readership of a recent development. The recent report merely confirms what was already rather apparent regarding Bill Hybels. For those who are unaware, an independent group (Independent Advisory Group (AIG)) did a review of matters regarding the Bill Hybels fiasco and how things were handled by Willow Creek … Continue reading “Update re:Bill Hybels scandal and Willow Creek Church”

“You just weren’t right for each other.”

“You just weren’t right for each other.” -Christian (giving a pass to the cheater) I find this sort of Monday morning quarterbacking annoying. It is obvious that a cheater and faithful spouse have different values based on their actions. That alone says that they are not compatible.  If we knew our spouse was going to … Continue reading ““You just weren’t right for each other.””

Hell of their own creation

Don’t follow after the wicked ones or be jealous of their wealth.Don’t think for a moment they’re better off than you. They and their short-lived successwill soon shrivel up and quickly fade awaylike grass clippings in the hot sun. -Psalm 37:1-2, TPT Much energy can be wasted in cheater envy. Been there. Done that. It is … Continue reading “Hell of their own creation”

People of Nineveh: Models in true repentance

7 Then the king and his nobles sent this decree throughout the city: “No one, not even the animals from your herds and flocks, may eat or drink anything at all. 8 People and animals alike must wear garments of mourning, and everyone must pray earnestly to God. They must turn from their evil ways and stop … Continue reading “People of Nineveh: Models in true repentance”