“You could do so much better than him,” says Enabler.
It starts with their “friends.”
Cheaters often surround themselves with “friends” who are not supportive of their marriage. In fact, they encourage damaging behavior and contempt for the faithful spouse.
It should not shock us, faithful spouses, when we learn that these “friends” were covering for our spouse’s infidelities. They might have even encouraged the affair to happen!
A gift of infidelity discovery is how it winnows out false “friends” from true friends.
True colors are seen.
Yes, these means enduring the revelation of betrayals. Yet that means we can set healthy boundaries and keep those damaging people out of our lives going forward.
