But I say that a man who divorces his wife, unless she has been unfaithful, causes her to commit adultery. And anyone who marries a divorced woman also commits adultery. -Matthew 5:32, NLT Faithful spouse, you are free to choose divorce over staying in an abusive marriage with a cheater. This is what I see … Continue reading “It is YOUR decision, not your pastor’s!”
Author: Divorce Minister
Hobby Milestone!
Hobbies are important for self-care. They are especially important while going through stressful times as a healthy release. For me, I am learning the sport of equipped, powerlifting. In particular, I am learning how to do the bench press with equipment. It is a nice physical activity for variety from my more cerebral work as … Continue reading “Hobby Milestone!”
Divorcing a cheater is not an “easy way out!”
Or how can you say to your brother, ‘Let me remove the speck from your eye’; and look, a plank is in your own eye? -Matthew 7:4, NKJV A faithful spouse choosing to divorce a cheater is not taking the “easy way out!” It is disgusting that a follower of Christ would ever suggest such a thing. They … Continue reading “Divorcing a cheater is not an “easy way out!””
Blog Posting Pausing for DM’s Vacation – November 30th to December 9th
DM is traveling out the country for a few days this December. So, I am going to put the blog posting on pause to enjoy my vacation. The pause is from Tuesday, November 30th through Thursday, December 9th. It is all for a good reason. I am traveling down to South America to meet Munchkin’s … Continue reading “Blog Posting Pausing for DM’s Vacation – November 30th to December 9th”
Grateful for the turnaround!
Back in 2013, I was still coming out of the daze of the discard. By November, I was doing very well, though. I had met Mrs. DM and Munchkin. In a few short months, we would become a family, officially. The turnaround in my life was relatively quick and truly, wonderful! I was reminded of … Continue reading “Grateful for the turnaround!”
Restitution is a true sorry.
Meanwhile, Zacchaeus stood before the Lord and said, “I will give half my wealth to the poor, Lord, and if I have cheated people on their taxes, I will give them back four times as much!” -Luke 19:8, NLT Sorry is a beginning. A true sorry is one backed by actions demonstrating an effort to … Continue reading “Restitution is a true sorry.”
Repentance is key to godly forgiveness
“4 Or those eighteen, upon whom the tower in Siloam fell, and slew them, think ye that they were sinners above all men that dwelt in Jerusalem? 5 I tell you, Nay: but, except ye repent, ye shall all likewise perish.” -Luke 13:4-5, KJV Repentance is clearly assumed as necessary before forgiveness and salvation according to Jesus’ … Continue reading “Repentance is key to godly forgiveness”
Happy Thanksgiving!
Happy Thanksgiving to my faithful spouses in the USA! I know this day may be a tough day for some of you. However, I would encourage both acknowledging those feelings exist AND thinking about what gives you gratitude as part of developing the spiritual discipline of thanksgiving. So, in the spirit of the holiday and … Continue reading “Happy Thanksgiving!”
It takes effort to deceive.
She hides and waits like a robber, eager to make more men unfaithful. -Proverbs 23:28, NLT For those inclined to believe a cheater is a victim of his or her circumstances, it is worth noting the effort necessary to cover up the infidelity. In fact, I think the aftermath of the cheating is actually the … Continue reading “It takes effort to deceive.”
Thanksgiving as a spiritual discipline
Be thankful in all circumstances, for this is God’s will for you who belong to Christ Jesus. -I Thessalonians 5:18, NLT Why would the author of I Thessalonians command us to be thankful unless this was something we have to choose to do? The temptation is to allow life’s circumstances to dictate the spiritual climate of our … Continue reading “Thanksgiving as a spiritual discipline”