Yesterday, I was busy at work on the book. This is an important week for manuscript edits and the like. The book–as of now–is going to be called: Taking Adultery Seriously: Divorce Minister help for surviving infidelity and keeping your faith I am very excited about completing this process. This will be my first … Continue reading “Working on Divorce Minister Book with Title Change”
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“For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer” Vows
For we must all stand before Christ to be judged. We will each receive whatever we deserve for the good or evil we have done in this earthly body. -2 Corinthians 5:10, NLT “…for better, for worse…” These are familiar parts of the wedding vows in a Christian wedding ceremony. But do we really believe … Continue reading ““For better, for worse, for richer, for poorer” Vows”
Tullian Tchividjian and his brand of unbiblical “grace”
“If another believer sins, rebuke that person; then if there is repentance, forgive.” -Luke 17:3b, NLT Two former pastors and cheaters recently wrote a post pleading for the church to extend “grace” to morally fallen clergy. These two pastors are speaking from the perspective of fallen pastors themselves. Their names are Tullian Tchividjian–who admitted to an … Continue reading “Tullian Tchividjian and his brand of unbiblical “grace””
“Vengeance is mine,” says God
Dear friends, never take revenge. Leave that to the righteous anger of God. For the Scriptures say,“I will take revenge; I will pay them back,” says the Lord. -Romans 12:19, NLT What allows Christian victims to let go of the injustices they experienced? Is it a denial wrongs happened? No. Is it a minimization of the … Continue reading ““Vengeance is mine,” says God”
Money Power and Cheaters
Teach those who are rich in this world not to be proud and not to trust in their money, which is so unreliable. Their trust should be in God, who richly gives us all we need for our enjoyment. -I Timothy 6:17, NLT Cheaters can be cruel. Money is just one leverage point cheaters use … Continue reading “Money Power and Cheaters”
Unveiling New DM Logo!
Divorce Minister: Taking Adultery Seriously has a new logo! I designed and drew this latest logo taking ideas from my previous iterations. My purpose in creating this latest version is to provide a cleaner and more professional logo for my ministry. Plus, I enjoyed applying my artistic skills in its creation. What do you all … Continue reading “Unveiling New DM Logo!”
Same Demonic Pattern
And when I forgive whatever needs to be forgiven, I do so with Christ’s authority for your benefit, so that Satan will not outsmart us. For we are familiar with his evil schemes. -2 Corinthians 2:10b-11, NLT When the same attacks and even words are used to tear down, I suspect a demonic origin behind those … Continue reading “Same Demonic Pattern”
Too Much at Stake to Sail Off!
So until I come, be diligent in devouring the Word of God, be faithful in prayer, and in teaching the believers. -I Timothy 4:13, TPT Too much is at stake to just sail off into my blessed sunset! I wish more faithful spouse pastors had not simply sailed off into their sunset prior to my … Continue reading “Too Much at Stake to Sail Off!”
Number 12 – Another Negative Anniversary
We would have celebrated our twelfth wedding anniversary today… Whatever people say about healing and “moving on,” I am a firm believer a piece of you is forever lost. You never “get over” losing a precious piece of your soul. I am SOOO thankful for Mrs. DM and Munchkin! And… I feel the pain of … Continue reading “Number 12 – Another Negative Anniversary”
My anxiety load is heavy enough!
Carry each other’s burdens, and in this way you will fulfill the law of Christ. -Galatians 6:2, NIV When dealing with infidelity discovery and divorce, no shortage of worries exist for the faithful spouse. The anxiety load is heavy! A word of advice for those wanting to truly help faithful spouses: Become aware of your … Continue reading “My anxiety load is heavy enough!”