Self-Hatred plus just plain old hate from others is rife during infidelity and divorce experiences. Here’s a song, “This is Me,” from the musical, The Greatest Showman, to help you fight that hate. Enjoy:
God, Repentance, and Forgiveness
The Lord is not slow in keeping his promise, as some understand slowness. Instead he is patient with you, not wanting anyone to perish, but everyone to come to repentance. -2 Peter 3:9, NIV The implication of 2 Peter 3:9 is without repentance God does not forgive but allows the sinner to perish for their … Continue reading “God, Repentance, and Forgiveness”
Actually, it IS your RESPONSIBILITY to judge a “Christian” cheater!
I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin…. It isn’t my responsibility to judge outsiders, but it certainly is your responsibility to judge those inside the church who are sinning. -I Corinthians 5:11a, 12, NLT Adultery certainly qualifies as sexual sin. What does the … Continue reading “Actually, it IS your RESPONSIBILITY to judge a “Christian” cheater!”
Pets help!
Mr. Pickles, the cat I am sure having Mr. Pickles, my cat, greatly helped my sanity. He made my apartment a home. I was able to come back to a living creature who actually was excited to see me. Unlike the bad reputation often given to cats, this cat actually waited for me at … Continue reading “Pets help!”
Cheaters framing vice as virtue
Last night, Mrs. DM and I watched the movie “Downsizing” with actor, Matt Damon, starring. It is a futuristic movie about a world where you can opt to undergo an irreversible procedure shrinking you to a fraction of your true size and thereby enter a world where you money goes a long ways. ***SPOILER ALERT*** … Continue reading “Cheaters framing vice as virtue”
Putting Together DM Book Description…
The book project is moving forward to finalizing stages. I have someone working on the formatting of the manuscript for Kindle eBook and paperback formats. Little by little, this book is coming together and moving forward to press. At this point, I thought I would share my draft of the book description: Cheated on? Abused? … Continue reading “Putting Together DM Book Description…”
Dear DM, I had a pastor really work the forgiveness argument into the ground…
Hi Divorce Minister, I’ve been reading your site for a couple months now and it’s been a great help to me in navigating through the issues with my wife’s affair. In this time I’ve gotten into quite a few long debates with many other Christians (some pastors, some not) about the situation and the amount of … Continue reading “Dear DM, I had a pastor really work the forgiveness argument into the ground…”
God will not tolerate mocking!
Don’t be misled—you cannot mock the justice of God. You will always harvest what you plant. Those who live only to satisfy their own sinful nature will harvest decay and death from that sinful nature. But those who live to please the Spirit will harvest everlasting life from the Spirit. – Galatians 6:7-8, NLT Committing … Continue reading “God will not tolerate mocking!”
Faith Walking
Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. -Hebrews 11:1, NASB Walking by faith is not easy. I think this is part of the reason doing so is so pleasing to God (Hebrews 11:6). He understands this is hard way to go. It takes discipline. -We have to discipline our spiritual senses to … Continue reading “Faith Walking”
DM Book Progress…Coming soon…
Today, I received another round of edits back from my manuscript editor. Also, I got this snazzy mock up of the book exterior. The book project is coming together as my job hunt is heating up as well. I welcome your prayers for favor on both fronts. God is so faithful and good. He is … Continue reading “DM Book Progress…Coming soon…”