“We have no money,” says Cheater.
Funny how “no money” Cheaters always seem to find money to use on their affair partners. From meals to trips, they are flush when it comes to spending marital assets on someone else.
That does not stop them from nitpicking their spouse’s spending, though. In those cases, “we” don’t have any money.
I think this is a common dynamic many of us, faithful spouses, experienced with our Cheaters. They were all worried about finances EXCEPT when it came to wasting them on their affair(s).

