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Happy? Holy Saturday

Happy? Holy Saturday

  And so, because it was the day of preparation for the Jewish Passover and since the tomb was close at hand, they laid Jesus there. -John 19:42, NLT Dreams shattered. Hope stolen and crushed on the cross.  His political enemies seemingly victorious having executed Jesus in the most humiliating and excruciating way known to … Continue reading “Happy? Holy Saturday”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 30, 2024Categories Encouragement, Trauma of adultery

A Decade Already!

A Decade Already!

Today, Mrs. DM and I celebrate ten years of marriage! I share this as a word of encouragement to those in the midst of “the suck.” It can and does get better on the other side of the divorce. Looking back, I felt like my world ended with my divorce. So many dreams died with … Continue reading “A Decade Already!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 28, 2024Categories Encouragement, Grief

Lifting the curtain

Lifting the curtain

17 And Elisha prayed, “Open his eyes, Lord, so that he may see.” Then the Lord opened the servant’s eyes, and he looked and saw the hills full of horses and chariots of fire all around Elisha. -2 Kings 6:17, NIV Often times, we do not see what God is doing in the background and the darkness. Then comes a … Continue reading “Lifting the curtain”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 22, 2024Categories Encouragement

Can’t go back. Must move forward!

Can’t go back. Must move forward!

Yea, though I walk through the valley of the shadow of death, I will fear no evil: for thou art with me; thy rod and thy staff they comfort me. -Psalm 23:4, KJV You cannot go back. Time does not work that way. You cannot un-know what you now know. Knowledge does not work that … Continue reading “Can’t go back. Must move forward!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 21, 2024Categories Cheating, Encouragement, Grief

Just a footnote to your awesome story!

Just a footnote to your awesome story!

The Lord blessed the latter part of Job’s life more than the former part. -Job 42:12a, NIV Looking back is odd these days, I feel like I am considering a stranger as I think about my first marriage. God has truly blessed the second part of my life. I feel tremendously grateful for all He has poured … Continue reading “Just a footnote to your awesome story!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 19, 2024Categories Cheating, Encouragement

Consider a pastor who exhibit empathy

Consider a pastor who exhibit empathy

  Then Jesus wept. -John 11:35, NLT When looking for a pastor, I would encourage you to consider empathy and compassion as necessary traits. The “answer man” or “answer woman” is not what a hurting heart needs. Today, I read an excellent article about the importance of this trait in pastors. It was written by … Continue reading “Consider a pastor who exhibit empathy”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 15, 2024Categories Encouragement

Fixing our eyes on Him!

Fixing our eyes on Him!

Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. -Hebrews 12:2, KJV Sometimes it helps to set aside one’s circumstances and focus upon Jesus in worship. … Continue reading “Fixing our eyes on Him!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 14, 2024Categories Encouragement

Mountain of God

Mountain of God

3 Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? … 4 The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not trust in an idol or swear by a false god. 5 They will receive blessing from the Lord and vindication from God their Savior. -Psalm 24:2a, 3-4, NIV Trust your vindication to God. Cheaters swear by a false god. That … Continue reading “Mountain of God”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 11, 2024Categories Cheating, Encouragement, Forgiveness

He works justice!

He works justice!

The Lord works righteousness     and justice for all the oppressed. -Psalm 103:6, NIV As I sat in church this morning, this verse jumped out to me. It is speaking about the character of God. He both sees the oppressed and works to set things right for them. There is so much injustice in situations with infidelity! The … Continue reading “He works justice!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on March 10, 2024Categories Encouragement

Heavenly gifts abound!

Heavenly gifts abound!

Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. -James 1:17, NLT Yesterday, I was thinking about the theme of forgiveness. I was struck about how Cheaters often leave the gift of … Continue reading “Heavenly gifts abound!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on February 29, 2024Categories Encouragement

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