And don’t you realize that if a man joins himself to a prostitute, he becomes one body with her? For the Scriptures say, “The two are united into one.” –I Corinthians 6:16, NLT Cheaters seem to enjoy playing the “martyr card.” They claim their spouse did not give them enough sex or emotional attention. “We … Continue reading “Cheaters Are NOT Martyrs But Rather Aggressors!”
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I speak as an evangelical chaplain.
I am an evangelical, ordained minister and professional chaplain. This website tackles infidelity from those lenses. I maintain that the Bible has plenty to say on the topics of adultery, abandonment, and divorce to correct what currently is out there for faithful spouses. In launching this blog, I am attempting to provide healing words to … Continue reading “I speak as an evangelical chaplain.”
He Came Down For You, Too!
“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends. Ye are my friends, if ye do whatsoever I command you. Henceforth I call you not servants; for the servant knoweth not what his lord doeth: but I have called you friends; for all things that I have … Continue reading “He Came Down For You, Too!”
Being A Divorcee In Christian Community
For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another! -Galatians 5:14-15, NKJV It hard to be divorced and live in the evangelical, Christian community. Because “The Shared Responsibility Lie” is … Continue reading “Being A Divorcee In Christian Community”
Encouraging Thought
While I was healing from my divorce and the abandonment of my first wife, I ran across the ministry of Brennan Manning in his writings. He was a man who struggled with the demons of alcoholism. And Manning was also an amazing man of God who preached a powerful word about grace. When I felt … Continue reading “Encouraging Thought”
Best Days Ahead
So the Lord blessed the latter end of Job more than his beginning…. -Job 42:12a, KJV Fear lies. It says things like… “Your best years are behind you.” “You will never find happiness again.” “You will always be financially insecure.” “No one will ever want you.” “You will never find a true friend.” “You will … Continue reading “Best Days Ahead”
The Spirit Of Stupid
Joseph had a dream, and when he told it to his brothers, they hated him all the more. He said to them, “Listen to this dream I had: We were binding sheaves of grain out in the field when suddenly my sheaf rose and stood upright, while your sheaves gathered around mine and bowed down … Continue reading “The Spirit Of Stupid”
Yea, that’s not God…
“God wants me to be happy! God gave us this [illicit] love for each other, therefore we’re meant to be!” “I met x because God wanted me to meet him/her.” “God sent me (affair partner’s name).” I’ll keep this short and sweet: If God is telling you to be with someone else’s spouse, that’s not … Continue reading “Yea, that’s not God…”
An Rock Anthem For Faithful Spouses!
I dub this: “The Anti-Adultery Tolerance Anthem!” This past week I was listening to the music on my smartphone. “We’re Not Gonna Take It” by the Twisted Sisters popped up, and I thought, “What a wonderful song to strengthen the timid!” Therefore, strengthen your feeble arms and weak knees. -Hebrews 12:12, NIV This is a … Continue reading “An Rock Anthem For Faithful Spouses!”
Working On Some Technical Difficulties
Hang tight…need to fix some technical issues on the blog…new posts to be coming soon, hopefully! -DM And we’re back!!!