“During the celebration [church retirement party for Yawn], Julianna and Pastor Yawn both got drunk and were described in the filings as ‘dancing “on” each other in a provocative way that was very embarrassing to Ben Zobrist, especially in front of their close church friends.’ The dad-of-three baseball player privately rebuked his wife for her … Continue reading “Zobrist Saga Continues With Dirty Dancing Allegations”
Author: Divorce Minister
Glimpses of clarity
“But if you fail to do this, you will be sinning against the Lord; and you may be sure that your sin will find you out.” -Numbers 32:23, NIV A slip. An admission is made. The veil of lies is lifted for a brief moment of truth-telling. Then it is back to the old games of … Continue reading “Glimpses of clarity”
Cheater-Speak: “I’m afraid of him.”
“I’m afraid of him,” she–aka the cheater–says. This like a blank check that a female cheater can cash in at anytime for sympathy and support from pastors and therapists alike. Most do not bother to ask any followup questions as to why she is claiming such fear. If they do, they might get: “I’m afraid, because … Continue reading “Cheater-Speak: “I’m afraid of him.””
Powerful quote to share
This past week I was blessed to spend time up at a cabin in Northern Minnesota. It was a wonderful time of memory making and relaxation with family. When I was driving back home yesterday, I was listening to an audio book. In particular, I am going through When Narcissism Comes to Church: Healing Your … Continue reading “Powerful quote to share”
On expectations to be the “model” divorced spouse
“’I am innocent, but it makes no difference to me— I despise my life. Innocent or wicked, it is all the same to God. That’s why I say, ‘He destroys both the blameless and the wicked.’” -Job 9:21-22, NLT Ever noticed the pressure among Christians to talk about “our part” when our marriages end in divorce–even … Continue reading “On expectations to be the “model” divorced spouse”
Listening to “The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill” Podcast
Recently, Christianity Today launched a fascinating podcast about the rise and demise of Mars Hill Church in Seattle. It is entitled, “The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill.” This is a very well researched and balanced take on this megachurch’s rise and implosion. If you have followed this blog for any time, you will be aware … Continue reading “Listening to “The Rise and Fall of Mars Hill” Podcast”
A spiritual secret for contentment
I have learned the secret of being content in any and every situation, whether well fed or hungry, whether living in plenty or in want. -Philippians 4:12b, NIV When I am tempted to spiral into resentment (or start going there), I am reminded of an important spiritual secret: Gratitude is a great antidote to resentment. … Continue reading “A spiritual secret for contentment”
Haughty, naughty cheaters
As the Scriptures say, “God opposes the proud but gives grace to the humble.” -James 4:6b, NLT The spiritually fatal flaw of cheaters is their pride. They behave as if they know better than everyone, including God. Such individuals are beyond hope until they are humbled. Humility is essential for godliness. A cheater bereft of … Continue reading “Haughty, naughty cheaters”
See God’s beauty!
The heavens proclaim the glory of God. The skies display his craftsmanship. -Psalm 19:1, NLT When reeling from infidelity discovery, it is easy to loose sight of the truth expressed here in Psalm 19. The world turns grey in the midst of our depression. Yet the heavens do not stop shouting out God’s glory even if … Continue reading “See God’s beauty!”
Divorce Minister Blog turns 7 years old today!
Today is the blog’s “birthday.” I launched this online ministry seven years ago today with the hope to address a gap in resources for faithful spouses. What I experienced when I went through my own divorce from a cheater was the absence of solid pastoral resources that took adultery seriously. So, I launched “Divorce Minister: … Continue reading “Divorce Minister Blog turns 7 years old today!”