The Lord replied, “I have forgiven them, as you asked. …not one of them will ever see the land I promised on oath to their ancestors. No one who has treated me with contempt will ever see it. -Numbers 14:20, 23, NIV A faithful spouse may forgive a cheater yet still divorce him or her. God forgave the Israelites for … Continue reading “Forgiveness does not erase all consequences!”
Author: Divorce Minister
Kesha’s “Praying”–A Faithful Spouse Anthem
I know that you are pleased with me, for my enemy does not triumph over me. -Psalm 41:11, NIV Artist, Kesha, just dropped a few new songs after a long and troubled hiatus from the music world. For those not following this story. The long and short is Kesha alleged she was seriously abused by … Continue reading “Kesha’s “Praying”–A Faithful Spouse Anthem”
Unhelpful to lament divorce rates!
For all the law is fulfilled in one word, even in this: “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” But if you bite and devour one another, beware lest you be consumed by one another! – Galatians 5:14-15, NKJV Lamenting divorce rates among Christians Likely, it is meant well. Good intentions are there, I am sure. Pastors are … Continue reading “Unhelpful to lament divorce rates!”
She calls me “my dad.”
Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him. -Psalm 127:3, NLT This past week I have had the joy of spending time at a cabin on a lake in Northern Minnesota with my wife’s side of the family. As this picture suggests, we have had the joy of trolling the … Continue reading “She calls me “my dad.””
NOT arguing for the return of the death penalty for cheaters!
“If a man commits adultery with his neighbor’s wife, both the man and the woman who have committed adultery must be put to death.” -Leviticus 20:10, NLT When I quote from the Old Testament Law about adultery, my point is not to argue for a reinstatement for the death penalty. My point is to push … Continue reading “NOT arguing for the return of the death penalty for cheaters!”
Warning Against “Throwing Away Your Marriage”
And the man that committeth adultery with another man’s wife, even he that committeth adultery with his neighbour’s wife, the adulterer and the adulteress shall surely be put to death. -Leviticus 20:10, KJV “Don’t throw away your marriage over this,” the well-meaning pastor tells the sobbing faithful spouse upon discovery of the adulterous double life … Continue reading “Warning Against “Throwing Away Your Marriage””
Blog Turns Three!
When I started this blog, I considered this website to be mostly a brain-dump for immediate friends and family curious about my thoughts on matters related to divorce and adultery. Three years later… The blog has blossomed to a web resource that has received over 380,000 views and nearly 150,000 unique visitors from literally across … Continue reading “Blog Turns Three!”
Date Your Mate Nonsense!
Excuses might be found for a thief who steals because he is starving. But if he is caught, he must pay back seven times what he stole, even if he has to sell everything in his house. -Proverbs 6:30-31, NLT Dating your spouse. It is not that I am against having one-on-one romantic evenings or … Continue reading “Date Your Mate Nonsense!”
RE: What about the Mark 10 passage on divorce?
But that doesn’t mean that the law has lost its force. It is easier for heaven and earth to disappear than for the smallest point of God’s law to be overturned. -Luke 16:17, NLT In response to my post “What about the Mark 10 passage on divorce?” Bill wrote: We addressed this before. You have … Continue reading “RE: What about the Mark 10 passage on divorce?”
Godly Sorrow and Discerning Advice
Godly sorrow brings repentance that leads to salvation and leaves no regret, but worldly sorrow brings death. – 2 Cor. 7:10, NIV When you see the fruit of advice destroying someone or yourself, you are seeing something bringing death as this verse tells us. This is not from God. God is not one who came … Continue reading “Godly Sorrow and Discerning Advice”