“For everyone practicing evil hates the light and does not come to the light, lest his deeds should be exposed.” – John 3:20, NKJV Silence about infidelity is the same thing as avoiding the light. It says the person does not what his or her wicked deeds exposed. They have not truly embraced repentance and … Continue reading “Denial is not forgiveness”
Questioning faithful spouses over “their part”
The fathers shall not be put to death for the children, neither shall the children be put to death for the fathers: every man shall be put to death for his own sin. – Deuteronomy 24:16, KJV “What did you contribute to the breakdown of your marriage?” -Inquiring Christian I do not like this sort … Continue reading “Questioning faithful spouses over “their part””
Accepted a Job Offer Today and Received Author Copies of Book Yesterday!
Today, my wait for a day job came to an end. I accepted an excellent job with a company near our home. God is faithful. God is good. He is a worthy of our trust. And–surprise, surprise–my book project is coming to an end. I received the author copies yesterday. God gave me an assignment … Continue reading “Accepted a Job Offer Today and Received Author Copies of Book Yesterday!”
Adultery, Trauma, and Forgiveness
Yesterday, I came across an interesting article about forgiveness and trauma care from a mental health provider, Anastasia Pollock, LCMHC. It is entitled: “Why I Don’t Use the Word ‘Forgiveness’ in Trauma Therapy” Pollock writes, As soon as I say, “You don’t have to forgive,” the person usually breathes a sigh of relief. Once we … Continue reading “Adultery, Trauma, and Forgiveness”
eBook Available on Pre-Sale Now!
My eBook is now available on Amazon.com for presales! Here’s a link (click below): The release date is set for November 12, 2018. For this period, I am offering a special discount-low price for those who purchase the eBook prior to its release: It is $4.99! I am currently doing final touches for the actual … Continue reading “eBook Available on Pre-Sale Now!”
See with Eyes of Faith
When I was in the darkest part of my valley, this song, “You Uphold,” ministered to my soul. The message was one of hope and faith. I needed to hear about my God believing in me during a time when some of the closest people did not (namely, my now ex-wife and her cohorts). This … Continue reading “See with Eyes of Faith”
Avoid Shipwrecking!
Timothy, my son, I am giving you this command in keeping with the prophecies once made about you, so that by recalling them you may fight the battle well, holding on to faith and a good conscience, which some have rejected and so have suffered shipwreck with regard to the faith. – 1 Timothy 1:18-19, … Continue reading “Avoid Shipwrecking!”
100 Page Paperback Author Copies Ordered!
Cheated On: The Divorce Minister Guide for Surviving Infidelity and Keeping Your Faith took a major step forward on my birthday yesterday. My formatting guy sent me the file I needed to upload the manuscript to Kindle Direct Publishing (KDP) to produce the paperback and eBooks. This is what I did yesterday. I took the … Continue reading “100 Page Paperback Author Copies Ordered!”
Happy Birthday to Me!
Life is a gift. I am grateful for God giving me 36 years on this earth as of this day. Some have been harder than others; however, He has always been and always will be good and faithful. So glad that I am alive today and able to celebrate with Mrs. DM and Munchkin. They … Continue reading “Happy Birthday to Me!”
Waiting on God is hard!
Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand. -Ephesians 6:13, NKJV Waiting on God is tough. So much in our lives we do not control. All we control is our own choices and behaviors. This is one of the … Continue reading “Waiting on God is hard!”