“Let Me Show You the Way” is an old but favorite song from Michael W. Smith. He really captures the heart of true friendship. This song by MWS speaks to what I believe is a human longing. It is a longing for a good friend who loves at a deep, heart-level. These are the friends … Continue reading “Good friends feel our pain, too!”
Two Finalists for DM Book Cover
I am closing in on my decision about the graphics for my forthcoming book. Below are the two finalists. Feel free to comment about your preference. Also, you can vote by liking the preferred image on the Divorce Minister Facebook page (link here). I am contemplating using the bed one as it fits the subject … Continue reading “Two Finalists for DM Book Cover”
Round 2: Choose the DM Book Cover Feedback
My book manuscript is awaiting its polishing by my hired editor–hopefully–sometime this week. In the meantime, I am trying to nail down the book cover design. From feedback, I have asked him to draft up a few more covers. I am deciding to shy away from images with crosses featured prominently as many of us … Continue reading “Round 2: Choose the DM Book Cover Feedback”
Repentance about “deserving” forgiveness?
Peter’s words pierced their hearts, and they said to him and to the other apostles, “Brothers, what should we do?” Peter replied, “Each of you must repent of your sins and turn to God, and be baptized in the name of Jesus Christ for the forgiveness of your sins. Then you will receive the gift … Continue reading “Repentance about “deserving” forgiveness?”
Lessons from WCC and fall of Hybels by Kyle Strobel and Jamin Goggin
In “How Willow Creek exposed our sins,” Kyle Strobel and Jamin Goggin suggest the mess at Willow Creek Church is a symptom of a much bigger problem in American evangelicalism. Strobel diagnoses the problem Willow Creek exposes as: The fundamental ailment of the evangelical church today is toxic power. Toxic power is anchored in prideful … Continue reading “Lessons from WCC and fall of Hybels by Kyle Strobel and Jamin Goggin”
Book cover preference?
Today, I am throwing out a few book cover designs and welcoming feedback over preferences. Let me know what you think or prefer of the four in the comments to this post. Option #1: Option #2: Option #3: Option #4: For my female readers, are these options all “too masculine” for you? Would … Continue reading “Book cover preference?”
Seeking testimonials for my book back cover!
I am busy finalizing edits and working on the important packaging touches for my book: I Was Cheated On… The Divorce Minister Guide for Surviving Infidelity and Keeping Your Faith Today, I am asking you, my readers, for some help. I need some testimonials to share on the back of the book. It is important … Continue reading “Seeking testimonials for my book back cover!”
Criticisms say a lot…
In the multitude of words sin is not lacking, But he who restrains his lips is wise. -Proverbs 10:19, NKJV People’s criticisms say a lot… …but not necessarily anything about the one criticized. This is a lesson impressed upon me during my formal training in clinical pastoral care. It is an important lesson to remember … Continue reading “Criticisms say a lot…”
What DO I say to an adultery victim as a pastor?!
“And if anyone gives even a cup of cold water to one of these little ones who is my disciple, truly I tell you, that person will certainly not lose their reward.” -Matthew 10:42, NIV What DO I say to an adultery victim as a pastor? Yesterday’s post raised this question. Dr. Skinner suggested a … Continue reading “What DO I say to an adultery victim as a pastor?!”
PTSD and adultery from expert, Dr. Kevin Skinner
Dr. Kevin Skinner is an American Association of Marriage and Family Therapists (AAMFT) supervisor who does research in the area of sexual betrayal. Here is his biography. His research into the matter of sexual betrayal has led him to the conclusion such betrayal leads to PTSD for many of its victims. He talks about being … Continue reading “PTSD and adultery from expert, Dr. Kevin Skinner”