15 Our days on earth are like grass;
like wildflowers, we bloom and die.
16 The wind blows, and we are gone—
as though we had never been here.-Psalm 103:15-16, NLT
Life is too short to argue with a cheater.
Do not waste your precious time arguing over your worth. You should not have to explain to your spouse that you did not deserve their abuse (as cheating is abuse!).
The older I get, the more it seems time moves faster. As a child, I felt like eternity waiting for the summer. Now, I blinked and my Munchkin is driving.
Life is so short.
A person that truly loved or loves you will respect this. They will see your time and energies toward them as precious gifts. Acting entitled to such is evidence of entitled, prideful behavior. Unrepentant cheaters behave this way.
Stop wasting your time on such a person.
You are permitted divorce as a mercy to get free of someone who does not share your covenant commitment to God and His command to love one another (see I John 3:10, Matthew 19:9, etc).
