While this is not necessarily a blanket endorsement (as I have not read it all and disagree with some stuff), I think SHRINK4MEN is an excellent resource in general for faithful spouses. It is focused on helping men deal with abusive female partners. However, I think the advice is broad enough to help female readers as well.
Personally, it is refreshing for me to read something from the mental health world that isn’t all about propping up “The Shared Responsibility Lie.” I am glad to know some mental health professionals get “it.”
Here’s a link to the latest blog entry that I found rather insightful: