Ever have your Cheater offer to end the affair on their own? I mean that they offer to tell the Affair Partner privately–without you–that it is over.
That offer is not worth much. You are taking the word of a liar who has demonstrated a willingness and ability to carry on a double-life. “Receipts” are needed with these people.
Some might actually do as they say… but they might also leave the door open for the future.
You don’t know, because you weren’t there. Also, you have no idea whether or not they took the relationship underground. That is a major reason marriages end with such treachery–i.e. you cannot trust someone who has demonstrated such untrustworthy behavior.
The marriage was destroyed by infidelity abuse.
Cheaters offering to end the affair privately are exhibiting shady behavior. This is not the stuff of marriage resurrection. Rather, it is more like the stuff of the “walking dead.”
