“I’d forgive her even if she cheated on me,” says Faithful Husband.
“You’d just hold that over her head forever,” says Cheater Apologist.
Some disordered people only view relationships through the lens of power and leverage.
Such response tells you everything you need to know about their “kingdom” alliance. They could care less about godliness and caring for the one they harmed.
It is all about power.
They cannot abide living in a relationship where they would not have such power. Oddly enough, though, they do realize that they would forever be in the faithful spouse’s debt.
