Category: Trauma of adultery

Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality

-I Corinthians 6:18, NIV A popular Country song is about using another person for sex in a one night stand. The song is “One Night Standards” by Ashley McBryde: I find this song extremely saddening. What an incredibly sad and devaluing take on human sexuality! It is debasing everyone both mentioned in the song and … Continue reading “Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality”

PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!

But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. -Proverbs 6:32-33, NIV The real shame is not faithful spouses divorcing cheaters, pastors. The real shame is Christians committing adultery! Preaching or counseling against divorce is a little late when it comes … Continue reading “PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!”

A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.

Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices…. -Colossians 3:9, NIV A lie to a child is still a lie. As Christians, we are to be people who speak truth, not lies.  This applies to children of divorce following infidelity. A lie is a lie. Now, truth can … Continue reading “A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.”

Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?

“Why did she HAVE TO leave?” – Cheater Apologist This is a loaded question.  If you even attempt to answer the question, you will lose. No good way to answer this question exist. It is like the classic loaded question: “When will you stop beating your wife?” Like this question assuming that you are beating … Continue reading “Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?”

Something worth giving thanks for!

Give thanks to him every time you reflect on his holiness! … We may weep through the night, but at daybreak it will turn into shouts of ecstatic joy. -Psalm 30:4b,5b, TPT Happy Thanksgiving to my readers in the United States! This is a strange one in 2020 like all things 2020. However, I know … Continue reading “Something worth giving thanks for!”

Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus

“I was recently contacted by someone who informed me that VERY BAD things have gone on over at Citizens Church Plano (formerly The Village Church-Plano Campus) which involved the campus pastor, Hunter Hall, and the worship pastor, Isaac Wimberley. It all goes back to 2016, when Hunter committed adultery with a woman in the church…but the … Continue reading “Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus”

Treat faithful spouses as adults, not children.

  When I was a child, I as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. -I Corinthians 13:11, KJV Something about the infidelity and divorce surviving experience seems to encourage other Christians to see themselves as our parents.   … Continue reading “Treat faithful spouses as adults, not children.”

Outrage of Cheaters

Cheaters often use anger as a way to avoid responsibility. You might have caught them red handed. Instead of repenting then and there, they turn on you with anger: -Maybe they blame you for “snooping” or otherwise invading their sacred privacy? -Maybe they use the occasion to say you forced them into this (sin)? -Maybe … Continue reading “Outrage of Cheaters”

Sickening Smugness Among “Christians”

Smug, married Christians act intolerably towards faithful spouses hemorrhaging from soul rape. These are “know it all” Christians who think all that proceeds from their mouths is gold. They are the “wise” ones in their eyes. The reality is what proceeds from their mouths would be better used to fertilize the fields. These smug people … Continue reading “Sickening Smugness Among “Christians””