Happy Mother’s Day to all those faithful spouses who are mothers! The shame of a “broken home” is not upon you. You are modeling health and godliness when you refuse to tolerate infidelity in your marriage and home. You are teaching your children (and grandchildren) not to tolerate abuse as adultery is abuse, IMO. On … Continue reading “Happy Mother’s Day, Faithful Wives!”
Category: Encouragement
Michael Card teachings on lament.
So often the church has lost sight of how important lament is. God wants our honesty. And sometimes all we can give God is our tears and protests of pain. The following series of YouTube videos linked below lay out a teaching by the Christian musician, Michael Card, on the topic of lament. It blessed … Continue reading “Michael Card teachings on lament.”
Divorce Minister Blog Vision
…fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God. – Hebrews 12:2, NIV Why create the blog “Divorce Minister?” Divorce Minister: Taking Adultery Seriously is a ministry born … Continue reading “Divorce Minister Blog Vision”
Be still and RELAX!
“Be still, and know that I am God!” – Psalm 46:10a, NLT When I was in the shock stage, I often found myself drawing a warm bath with lavender bath salts to ease my stress. I would play worship music to encourage my soul as I soaked in the tub before or after I went … Continue reading “Be still and RELAX!”
Just a thought…
Thought: If I can extend more grace and mercy to those I love than I think God would extend to me, maybe I don’t really understand God’s love for me. A common theme for faithful spouses is a willingness to be harder on ourselves than we ever would be on those we love. We probably … Continue reading “Just a thought…”
Hope with Holy Saturday
Then he took it down, wrapped it in linen cloth and placed it in a tomb cut in the rock, one in which no one had yet been laid. It was Preparation Day, and the Sabbath was about to begin. -Luke 23:53-54, NIV The disciples thought it was all over. Jesus was dead. The light had gone … Continue reading “Hope with Holy Saturday”
Fourth Anniversary Yesterday!
He who finds a wife finds a good thing, And obtains favor from the Lord. -Proverbs 18:22, NKJV Yesterday, Mrs. DM and I marked our fourth wedding anniversary. I cannot imagine my life without Mrs. DM and Munchkin in it. They have truly transformed my life for the better. I have found favor from the Lord, indeed. For … Continue reading “Fourth Anniversary Yesterday!”
Not condemned.
It is the Sovereign Lord who helps me. Who will condemn me? They will all wear out like a garment; the moths will eat them up. -Isaiah 50:9, NIV God is on the side of righteousness. In the case of adultery, that means God is on the “side” of the faithful spouse. He is not participating in their condemnation. I … Continue reading “Not condemned.”
Another Song to Minister. Trust God.
9 The Lord also will be a refuge for the oppressed, a refuge in times of trouble. 10 And they that know thy name will put their trust in thee: for thou, Lord, hast not forsaken them that seek thee. -Psalm 9:9-10, KJV When I was struggling the most, the Psalms and music were my refuge. I needed the brutal … Continue reading “Another Song to Minister. Trust God.”
A reminder from Psalm 118
Let those who fear the Lord say: “His love endures forever.” … The Lord is with me; I will not be afraid. What can mere mortals do to me? -Psalm 118:4, 6, NIV When I consider these words from Psalm 118, I am struck by how the author bases his claim on God’s help with an unwavering faith in … Continue reading “A reminder from Psalm 118”