For some people have deliberately violated their consciences; as a result, their faith has been shipwrecked. Hymenaeus and Alexander are two examples. I threw them out and handed them over to Satan so they might learn not to blaspheme God. -I Timothy 1:19b-20, NLT The Apostle Paul names, names here. He does not shy away from … Continue reading “Called out!”
Author: Divorce Minister
They do not really care about you!
“I never intended to hurt you,” says Cheater. This statement is either from someone who is lying boldly to your face or by someone who sucks at connecting their actions to consequences. In neither instance are they a good person to be around. They may be lying to more than just you in making this … Continue reading “They do not really care about you!”
It’s my birthday!
Today is another birthday for me. Life gets better. This is what I have seen in my lifetime. After going through some terrible things, I have experienced how God uses those experiences to create beauty later in life. Years ago, I remember talking with a guy at a gym I frequented in Connecticut. He shared … Continue reading “It’s my birthday!”
Telling on themselves.
Cheaters often overestimate their own cleverness. They think they are getting away with it all. But rather, their words are telling everyone with ears to hear the reality of their sins. How does this work? They level an outrageous accusation towards the faithful spouse. Maybe they say that the faithful spouse is manipulating everyone close … Continue reading “Telling on themselves.”
Dumb Stuff “Christians” Say Regarding Cheating Situations
Even fools are thought wise if they keep silent, and discerning if they hold their tongues. -Proverbs 17:28 More Christians could learn from that fool from Proverbs 17:28 who held his tongue when it comes to marriages ravaged by adultery. Sadly, the advice (and condemnation) come all too freely for faithful spouses. Here a few … Continue reading “Dumb Stuff “Christians” Say Regarding Cheating Situations”
Achieved the “800 Bench Press Club” Yesterday!
When going through infidelity discovery, the pain is really strong. I am so glad I did not allow that pain to stop me from living into the future. Yesterday, I achieved a feat that would have blown my 20 or even 30 year old self. In training, I bench pressed 805 lbs (365 kgs) in … Continue reading “Achieved the “800 Bench Press Club” Yesterday!”
Fun Hobby Saturday!
Today, I have a rare Saturday off from work. It is the weekend leading up to my birthday. So, I am going up to the Twin Cities to do a heavy session in bench press. It is a mini-birthday treat to me. I am excited to see where my limits are at in bench before … Continue reading “Fun Hobby Saturday!”
Song to strengthen
When recovering from the destruction of infidelity discovery and divorce, getting a solid job to meet financial needs is important. Today, I am simply posting a song to encourage those going into fray of the job hunt today. (Truth be told, I am also posting for myself, too. In a little while, I will be … Continue reading “Song to strengthen”
A good pastor eases fears
“I will place shepherds over them who will tend them, and they will no longer be afraid or terrified, nor will any be missing,” declares the Lord. -Jeremiah 23:4, NIV When going through adultery discovery and divorce, it is hard to know which pastor to trust. Does this one care more for “saving” my marriage or … Continue reading “A good pastor eases fears”
Please, do not give up on God!
Blessed is the one who perseveres under trial because, having stood the test, that person will receive the crown of life that the Lord has promised to those who love him. -James 1:12, NIV The temptation to give up on God is great when going through the spiritual abuse that often comes with a divorce from a … Continue reading “Please, do not give up on God!”