Don’t answer the foolish arguments of fools, or you will become as foolish as they are. -Proverbs 26:4, NIV When dealing with a lying cheater, sometimes the best policy is simply to choose NOT to engage. You may find yourself arguing with a “fool” if you do engage. I know this is easier said than done. It … Continue reading “Just do NOT engage!”
Category: Encouragement
Deep Losses Can Lead To Deep Gratitude
He reached down from on high and took hold of me; he drew me out of deep waters. -Psalm 18:16, NIV Like violent water rushing down a channel, harsh circumstances can serve as the means to deepen our hearts and expand their capacity. Losses are huge for divorced faithful spouses. The loss of “friendships,” love, money, … Continue reading “Deep Losses Can Lead To Deep Gratitude”
Kesha’s “Praying”–A Faithful Spouse Anthem
I know that you are pleased with me, for my enemy does not triumph over me. -Psalm 41:11, NIV Artist, Kesha, just dropped a few new songs after a long and troubled hiatus from the music world. For those not following this story. The long and short is Kesha alleged she was seriously abused by … Continue reading “Kesha’s “Praying”–A Faithful Spouse Anthem”
She calls me “my dad.”
Children are a gift from the LORD; they are a reward from him. -Psalm 127:3, NLT This past week I have had the joy of spending time at a cabin on a lake in Northern Minnesota with my wife’s side of the family. As this picture suggests, we have had the joy of trolling the … Continue reading “She calls me “my dad.””
Blog Turns Three!
When I started this blog, I considered this website to be mostly a brain-dump for immediate friends and family curious about my thoughts on matters related to divorce and adultery. Three years later… The blog has blossomed to a web resource that has received over 380,000 views and nearly 150,000 unique visitors from literally across … Continue reading “Blog Turns Three!”
Divorce Minister Going Strong!
He comforts us in all our troubles so that we can comfort others. When they are troubled, we will be able to give them the same comfort God has given us. -2 Corinthians 1:4, NLT When I started this blog now nearly three years ago, I thought maybe a few friends and family might be … Continue reading “Divorce Minister Going Strong!”
Faithful Spouses, You ROCK!!
After months, years, or even decades of emotional beat-downs, faithful spouses often struggle in knowing their incredible worth. We discount our gifts, abilities, and precious status in God’s eyes. Faithful spouses, you are an incredible bunch! The stories I hear and the people I have met through this ministry confirms this fact to me. I … Continue reading “Faithful Spouses, You ROCK!!”
Hardened
But this time also Pharaoh hardened his heart and would not let the people go. -Exodus 8:32, NIV The reality of one’s powerlessness is one of the most difficult aspects of going through an unwanted divorce. Yet this very real powerlessness can serve as a comfort after the fact! As an introspective person, I find … Continue reading “Hardened”
Father’s Day: SOO thankful for my dad!
Children’s children are the crown of old men; and the glory of children are their fathers. -Proverbs 17:6, KJV When my world fell apart, my dad was there (along with my mother) to support me and provide a place to land as I put the pieces of my shattered life back together. I spent countless … Continue reading “Father’s Day: SOO thankful for my dad!”
My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?
“My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?” -Matthew 27:46b, KJV When I was struggling the most, these words from Jesus brought me the greatest comfort. They were reminders to me that God understood the pain and suffering that I was enduring. He could relate. Jesus understands what it meant to suffer unjustly. Jesus understands … Continue reading “My God, my God, why hast thou forsaken me?”