“You got to understand. I never intended to hurt you.” -Cheater Why would a cheater tell their spouse that they never wanted or intended to hurt them? I think this is all about protecting themselves. The cheater is attempting to protect themselves from the reality of what they did. By attempting to get agreement about … Continue reading “Cheater Speak: “I really never intended to hurt you.””
It DOES get better!
My heart is sick, withered like grass, and I have lost my appetite. -Psalm 102:4, NLT Grief is very heavy in the initial stages of infidelity discovery. I remember having to tell myself to eat. My appetite had left me when I made the awful discovery. If my memory serves me correctly, I dropped about … Continue reading “It DOES get better!”
Stay away!
They will act religious, but they will reject the power that could make them godly. Stay away from people like that! -2 Timothy 3:5, NLT A type of person emerged during my dark season. This is the type of person that the author of 2 Timothy warns us about in his letter. It is the … Continue reading “Stay away!”
Jesus condemned emotional affairs, too.
But I tell you that anyone who looks at a woman lustfully has already committed adultery with her in his heart. -Matthew 5:28, NIV Too often, emotional affairs are treated by Christians and professionals as symptoms as opposed to sins. Clearly, Jesus saw emotional affairs as sins. They were only symptomatic insofar as they are … Continue reading “Jesus condemned emotional affairs, too.”
Happy Easter – No grave can keep Him (or us!)
“He is not here: for he is risen, as he said. Come, see the place where the Lord lay.” -Matthew 28:6, KJV Happy Easter! May you be encouraged by the truth of God’s victory over the grave. Whatever your circumstances, God is greater. I enjoyed the following song and share it in the spirit … Continue reading “Happy Easter – No grave can keep Him (or us!)”
Holy Saturday Meditation
And so, because it was the day of preparation for the Jewish Passover and since the tomb was close at hand, they laid Jesus there. -John 19:42, NLT How were the Disciples feeling on the day after the execution of Jesus? Holy Saturday. I imagine a great deal of disbelief. The death of more than … Continue reading “Holy Saturday Meditation”
Good Friday Reminder–Jesus understands!
He was despised and rejected by men, a man of deep sorrows who was no stranger to suffering and grief. We hid our faces from him in disgust and considered him a nobody, not worthy of respect. -Isaiah 53:3, TPT During this Holy Week, I think it important to write a reminder about Jesus. This is a … Continue reading “Good Friday Reminder–Jesus understands!”
Decided not to call
I discovered many calls and texts between my (now) ex-wife and her adultery partner. They were at all times of the day and night. One of my counselors asked if I was interested in calling the Other Man (OM). I really was not interested. Looking back, I think I did not want to engage this … Continue reading “Decided not to call”
Initially thought it started good…
When we married, we likely had no idea our marriage would end the way it did. It was a happy day. Sure, the saying goes that hindsight is 20/20. We might now notice things we never noticed prior to that wedding day. However, the marriage started with hope and joy. That is healthy. I do … Continue reading “Initially thought it started good…”
Lectured by (ex) in-laws
Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger by the way you treat them. Rather, bring them up with the discipline and instruction that comes from the Lord. -Ephesians 6:4, NLT Show of–virtual–hands, how many had in-laws who lectured you about your deficiencies as a spouse? If you are looking for the source of blinding … Continue reading “Lectured by (ex) in-laws”