Burning bridges is sometimes wisdom in action!

I meant that you are not to associate with anyone who claims to be a believer yet indulges in sexual sin, or is greedy, or worships idols, or is abusive, or is a drunkard, or cheats people. Don’t even eat with such people. – I Corinthians 5:11, NLT Some bridges need burning! I am thinking of … Continue reading “Burning bridges is sometimes wisdom in action!”

Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality

-I Corinthians 6:18, NIV A popular Country song is about using another person for sex in a one night stand. The song is “One Night Standards” by Ashley McBryde: I find this song extremely saddening. What an incredibly sad and devaluing take on human sexuality! It is debasing everyone both mentioned in the song and … Continue reading “Profoundly Sad Take On Human Sexuality”

PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!

But a man who commits adultery has no sense; whoever does so destroys himself. Blows and disgrace are his lot, and his shame will never be wiped away. -Proverbs 6:32-33, NIV The real shame is not faithful spouses divorcing cheaters, pastors. The real shame is Christians committing adultery! Preaching or counseling against divorce is a little late when it comes … Continue reading “PSA: Committing adultery, pastors, is the real shameful matter here, NOT divorce!”

A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.

Do not lie to each other, since you have taken off your old self with its practices…. -Colossians 3:9, NIV A lie to a child is still a lie. As Christians, we are to be people who speak truth, not lies.  This applies to children of divorce following infidelity. A lie is a lie. Now, truth can … Continue reading “A lie remains a lie even if spoken to a child.”

Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?

“Why did she HAVE TO leave?” – Cheater Apologist This is a loaded question.  If you even attempt to answer the question, you will lose. No good way to answer this question exist. It is like the classic loaded question: “When will you stop beating your wife?” Like this question assuming that you are beating … Continue reading “Cheater Apologist: Why did she HAVE TO leave?”

Something worth giving thanks for!

Give thanks to him every time you reflect on his holiness! … We may weep through the night, but at daybreak it will turn into shouts of ecstatic joy. -Psalm 30:4b,5b, TPT Happy Thanksgiving to my readers in the United States! This is a strange one in 2020 like all things 2020. However, I know … Continue reading “Something worth giving thanks for!”

Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus

“I was recently contacted by someone who informed me that VERY BAD things have gone on over at Citizens Church Plano (formerly The Village Church-Plano Campus) which involved the campus pastor, Hunter Hall, and the worship pastor, Isaac Wimberley. It all goes back to 2016, when Hunter committed adultery with a woman in the church…but the … Continue reading “Sexually compromised leaders at a church formerly The Village Church – Plano Campus”

Treat faithful spouses as adults, not children.

  When I was a child, I as a child, I understood as a child, I thought as a child: but when I became a man, I put away childish things. -I Corinthians 13:11, KJV Something about the infidelity and divorce surviving experience seems to encourage other Christians to see themselves as our parents.   … Continue reading “Treat faithful spouses as adults, not children.”

Outrage of Cheaters

Cheaters often use anger as a way to avoid responsibility. You might have caught them red handed. Instead of repenting then and there, they turn on you with anger: -Maybe they blame you for “snooping” or otherwise invading their sacred privacy? -Maybe they use the occasion to say you forced them into this (sin)? -Maybe … Continue reading “Outrage of Cheaters”