While an abusive cheater may act otherwise, he or she is NOT entitled to your agreement.

They might want you to agree to a blasé narrative about why you are divorcing absent all mention of their marriage-ending sin.

They might want you to agree to never bring up the cheater partner.

They might want you to agree to lie to mutual friends and family about why you  are so sad.

You do not owe them this agreement!

Some cheaters are so messed up that they might expect you to agree to an open marriage.

They might insist that you agree to stay married to them as they continue to humiliate you and violate their marriage vows.

They might insist you agree that you caused the marriage to end by not _____ (fill in cheater’s favorite malicious attack).

You do not owe them this agreement!

Just because a cheater acts entitled to agreement does not mean they actually are. You get to choose. Choose wisely!