The Lord blessed the latter part of Job’s life more than the former part. -Job 42:12a, NIV Looking back is odd these days, I feel like I am considering a stranger as I think about my first marriage. God has truly blessed the second part of my life. I feel tremendously grateful for all He has poured … Continue reading “Just a footnote to your awesome story!”
Category: Encouragement
Consider a pastor who exhibit empathy
Then Jesus wept. -John 11:35, NLT When looking for a pastor, I would encourage you to consider empathy and compassion as necessary traits. The “answer man” or “answer woman” is not what a hurting heart needs. Today, I read an excellent article about the importance of this trait in pastors. It was written by … Continue reading “Consider a pastor who exhibit empathy”
Fixing our eyes on Him!
Looking unto Jesus the author and finisher of our faith; who for the joy that was set before him endured the cross, despising the shame, and is set down at the right hand of the throne of God. -Hebrews 12:2, KJV Sometimes it helps to set aside one’s circumstances and focus upon Jesus in worship. … Continue reading “Fixing our eyes on Him!”
Mountain of God
3 Who may ascend the mountain of the Lord? … 4 The one who has clean hands and a pure heart, who does not trust in an idol or swear by a false god. 5 They will receive blessing from the Lord and vindication from God their Savior. -Psalm 24:2a, 3-4, NIV Trust your vindication to God. Cheaters swear by a false god. That … Continue reading “Mountain of God”
He works justice!
The Lord works righteousness and justice for all the oppressed. -Psalm 103:6, NIV As I sat in church this morning, this verse jumped out to me. It is speaking about the character of God. He both sees the oppressed and works to set things right for them. There is so much injustice in situations with infidelity! The … Continue reading “He works justice!”
Heavenly gifts abound!
Whatever is good and perfect is a gift coming down to us from God our Father, who created all the lights in the heavens. He never changes or casts a shifting shadow. -James 1:17, NLT Yesterday, I was thinking about the theme of forgiveness. I was struck about how Cheaters often leave the gift of … Continue reading “Heavenly gifts abound!”
Successful Lifting Meet
Today, I had a successful meet competing in the bench press. It was my first “raw” meet–meaning without the assistance of a shirt (gear). I hit 185kgs/407.8lbs. It was good for a national record in my federation for my age and size, drug tested. It is a fun hobby. I will be back to my … Continue reading “Successful Lifting Meet”
Big Hobby Day Tomorrow!
Hobbies are important for flourishing and recovering from infidelity trauma. I really encourage you to develop hobbies as you work towards your new life. For me, weight training has always been apart of my life both prior and after my first marriage. This weekend I get to compete in a weight lifting meet. I will … Continue reading “Big Hobby Day Tomorrow!”
Laugh with those who laugh
Rejoice with them that do rejoice, and weep with them that weep. -Romans 12:15, KJV Laugh with those who laugh! I am grateful for the pets in my life. We have a full house of birds and lizards at the present. They bring such joy and laughter to our hearts! Years ago while I was … Continue reading “Laugh with those who laugh”
Contrast to the usual “Christian” resources
While I am thankful for the help of some Christian resources in my dark season, I discovered most had an agenda apart from freely presenting the options. Most Christian resources–in my experience–are focused upon “saving the marriage.” This goal is pursued at the unacknowledged cost of the faithful spouse’s well-being. For these authors and pastors, … Continue reading “Contrast to the usual “Christian” resources”