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No Hierarchy in One

No Hierarchy in One

Therefore shall a man leave his father and his mother, and shall cleave unto his wife: and they shall be one flesh. -Genesis 2:24, KJV Hear, O Israel: The LORD our God, the LORD is one. -Deuteronomy 6:4, NIV No Hierarchy in Oneness In some theological circles, marriage is taught as a hierarchy where the … Continue reading “No Hierarchy in One”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on December 23, 2025Categories Musings

So unseen!

So unseen!

14 “But suppose this son has a son who sees all the sins his father commits, and though he sees them, he does not do such things: 15 “He does not eat at the mountain shrines     or look to the idols of Israel. He does not defile his neighbor’s wife. … He will not die for his father’s … Continue reading “So unseen!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on December 8, 2025Categories Cheating, Emotional Affair, Musings, Sin, Trauma of adultery

Lessons from a dead pet

Lessons from a dead pet

Today, we said good-bye to one of our dear parrot buddies, Trip. He died from complications following a surgery. It sucks. It mystifies me how Cheaters can discard spouses so easily. I only had this little bird for a few years and am profoundly sad at his death. The lack of attachment to another human … Continue reading “Lessons from a dead pet”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on December 7, 2025Categories Grief, Musings

Hobby Day – Bench Competition

Hobby Day – Bench Competition

I recently competed in a weight lifting meet as a bench only competitor. The day was a mixed bag. I succeeded on my opening attempt where I easily benched pressed 250kgs/551lbs. This was good enough to earn me a medal at the meet. Sadly, I missed at the weight I really wanted to hit in … Continue reading “Hobby Day – Bench Competition”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on December 6, 2025Categories Musings

Life Message – All About Connection To God

Life Message – All About Connection To God

5 “Yes, I am the vine; you are the branches. Those who remain in me, and I in them, will produce much fruit. For apart from me you can do nothing. … 9 “I have loved you even as the Father has loved me. Remain in my love.” -John 15:5, 9, NLT We were made to live … Continue reading “Life Message – All About Connection To God”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on December 1, 2025December 1, 2025Categories Encouragement, Musings

Stuck Phenomenon

Stuck Phenomenon

Stuck Phenomenon Something I’ve noticed over the years working with faithful spouses is how Cheaters often stay stuck in the same cycles. They do not mature. Cheaters want to rehash the same arguments with us over and over again. This makes sense as they are trying to solve something that can only be solved through … Continue reading “Stuck Phenomenon”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on November 18, 2025Categories Cheating, Musings, Sin

A reminder of a song

A reminder of a song

  Behold, what manner of love the Father hath bestowed upon us, that we should be called the sons of God… -I John 3:1, KJV When I find myself stressed, I find I need to be reminded of my place in God’s family. That worry is a symptom of my disconnect from God’s love. One … Continue reading “A reminder of a song”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on November 11, 2025Categories Encouragement, Musings

Triggering Text – Proverbs 18:17

Triggering Text – Proverbs 18:17

There are two sides to every story. The first one to speak sounds true until you hear the other side and they set the record straight. -Proverbs 18:17, TPT I was minding my own business reading a book about supernatural phenomenon and this verse was quoted. It sent me back immediately and emotionally to my … Continue reading “Triggering Text – Proverbs 18:17”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on November 7, 2025Categories Cheating, Grief, Musings, Sin

Walking in faith is difficult!

Walking in faith is difficult!

Now faith is the assurance of things hoped for, the conviction of things not seen. -Hebrews 11:1, NASB Walking by faith is not easy. I think this is part of the reason doing so is so pleasing to God (Hebrews 11:6). He understands this is hard way to go. It takes discipline. -We have to discipline our spiritual senses to … Continue reading “Walking in faith is difficult!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on October 18, 2025Categories Encouragement, Musings

Hobby Milestone – 915lbs!

Hobby Milestone – 915lbs!

I am taking a break from my usual postings to talk about my hobby–equipped bench pressing. Yesterday marked a significant milestone on my quest to bench press 1,000lbs. Weight loaded on the bar prior to the lift. In training yesterday, I bench pressed 915lbs/415kgs! If I do this same weight in competition, that would place … Continue reading “Hobby Milestone – 915lbs!”

Author Divorce MinisterPosted on October 9, 2025Categories Encouragement, Musings

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