Whatever our troubles, they do not win. Jesus has and does!

“In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world.” -Jesus in John 16:33b, NIV Whatever the trouble we may facing, we have these words of comfort from Jesus. The world does not win! It soothes my anxieties to remember this truth. While Jesus promises that we will experience trouble in this … Continue reading “Whatever our troubles, they do not win. Jesus has and does!”

Which category is the cheater in? Pharisee or enemy?

 Snakes! Sons of vipers! How will you escape the judgment of hell? -Matthew 23:30, NLT But I tell you, love your enemies and pray for those who persecute you, that you may be children of your Father in heaven. -Matthew 5:44-45a, NIV Recently, I have been meditating on the different ways Jesus handled people who acted in … Continue reading “Which category is the cheater in? Pharisee or enemy?”

Senseless Consciences

But the [Holy] Spirit explicitly and unmistakably declares that in later times some will turn away from the faith…[misled] by the hypocrisy of liars whose consciences are seared as with a branding iron [leaving them incapable of ethical functioning]…. -I Timothy 4:1a,2, AMP When a cheater is telling their spouse, pastor, and/or Christian counselor that … Continue reading “Senseless Consciences”

PSA: The worst piece of advice I followed in my first marriage’s ending.

“Contend with your mother, contend, For she is not my wife, and I am not her husband; And let her put away her harlotry from her face And her adultery from between her breasts…” -Hosea 2:2, NASB While I do not mind the end result–the merciful divorce paving the way to my marriage to Mrs. DM–I am still … Continue reading “PSA: The worst piece of advice I followed in my first marriage’s ending.”

More hearts broken than “just” the faithful spouse’s

“If a man is discovered committing adultery, both he and the woman must die. In this way, you will purge Israel of such evil.” -Deuteronomy 22:22, NLT After posting about how cheating affects the whole family, I was struck by a popular Country song. This song isn’t about marriage. It is about dating relationships designed … Continue reading “More hearts broken than “just” the faithful spouse’s”

Dear Divorce Minister, Any advice would help.

Dear Divorce Minister, My husband and I have only been married a year. I felt like we had a good relationship. He was my best friend. We communicated well, we were very loving, caring, and supportive to each other, yet almost immediately after we were married I had a gut feeling that something wasn’t right. … Continue reading “Dear Divorce Minister, Any advice would help.”